I get this concern; I’ve heard it many times. Truth is, women are more into personal development than men. However, I know from my personal experience and from working with my clients, when you change, he’ll change. One of my client’s shares how this was exactly what she experienced, you can find her story here.
I have witnessed the power of women doing their work and the impact it has had on the men so many times. In fact, I’ve had SEVERAL husbands sign up for coaching with me after witnessing the transformation in their wives, and these were men who had never done coaching or personal development before.
This is also why I have added 2 Q&A’s for your men at the end and end of Adored. This is one of the components that makes Adored different from other programs. And if they are interested in learning how they can improve the relationship, they can sign up for Lead Your Love
You have more power to shift the nature of your relationship than you may realize you have. And through Adored, you are going to learn how to take that power back that you have given away to tolerating, compromising and hopelessness. You don’t need to settle for mediocrity; you can have your ideal relationship!
To help you to see how powerful and impactful it is when you focus on doing your work, here’s one of my client’s experiences:
Justine told me that if I put energy and effort into the relationship, my partner will respond. She said that he didn’t need to work on himself, if he didn’t feel inclined to, and that he would be transformed by the work that I do.
And every bit of that has proven to be true. My husband and I have grown together over the course of the work that I have done on myself with Justine.
She has helped me to be more content, grounded, self-aware. And as a result, my husband shows up in the relationship in a different way, as a better and more enhanced version of himself. He is more grounded, happy and content as a result of the coaching that I have done with Justine. It’s powerful and has been a thoroughly transformative experience.
My husband tells me more than once a week how he’s so impressed and proud with the work that I’ve done on myself. He says he’s never been more in love with me. And that coaching is the best money we have ever spent.
I have countless stories just like this one. Lot can happen when you shift your focus from what he should do, to what you can do.